Stabilizer Shaft Link Bolt Assembly Question

1995 GMC K2500 350 CID V-8. Question about stabilizer shaft link bolt assembly. When replacing the bolt with the rubber gromments, How much do you tighten? One source says to tighten the nut to the botton of the threads and then torque to 13 ft-lbs. This would compress the rubber gromments about 1-3/8" (total length of the threaded section.) Can anyone confirm proper assembly instructions?

Dave