That's why Car and Driver chose the new S4 over the M3. I guess, then, that your "most magazines" is just mere hyperbole?
Whether or not you are willing to admit it, some people do actually care how much money they spend on automobiles. The stretch from the most luxurious A4 to the base S4 is not bad. From the S4 to the RS4 is quite large. By your logic, if I can afford an S4, then I can afford an Enzo.
You're a bench racer with a lot of magazines under your arm. If you could afford the cars you were discussing, you'd be out driving one of them. Q.E.D.
But if you can afford all that, then surely you can afford an RS6, right? After all, that's your line of reasoning.
But you say the S4 is a better car. I would agree. The trade-offs you are making might not be the trade-offs that anyone else would make. How much of the engine's lifespan do you think those mods are going to remove? It's a gamble. And after some period of upgrades and repairs, you'll have spent the money equivalent to the S4. For what? A pedestrian A4 1.8T.
I wouldn't regret it for a second. Extracting the very last ounce of performance out of a car is not my style. Especially on a daily driver.
If you have done your research, and know what you want, then you won't be disappointed. Well-informed buyers know the possibilities, and make choices accordingly.
Only a fool would think otherwise.
Spider