Autos don't have a traditional clutch that wears out, no slave clylinder, no throwout bearing. In terms of durability I'd say they're pretty equal all in.
I drive a steptronic and a manual and around town the auto is great - foot down and off you go, no waiting for gear changes which on my car aren't very nice. I can't remember the last time I used the steptronic function. It's only when I'm "racing" somewhere that I might put it into sport first, then decide when to change up or down then back into auto again.
The biggest "issue" is that of the torque converter - in a manual the engine rpm is directly related to the cars speed so in twisty corners etc you get better control than the auto unless you're at high enough rpm to lock up the torque converter.
I grew up driving both autos and sticks so I'm not quite as biased as some others on here. If you like the auto now, then get one.