(I also found the story below from a website)
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There's pressurized oil at the rocker shaft to lubricate the rockers, but there's no direct way for that oil to get to the pushrod sockets. There's a passage in each rocker that allows oil from around the rocker shaft to migrate out to the small hole in the top of the pushrod socket, but it's wide open on the outer end so there is no pressure there to feed the oil down into the socket.
Apparently the small hole in the pushrod socket that intersects this passage is supposed to meter oil down into the socket somehow, in spite of all the motion that's trying to sling the oil out from the open end of the passage in the rocker. It's hard to believe that any oil can actually get into the sockets, so it's no wonder they wear out prematurely. Rebuilders should expect to rebuild or replace most of the rockers. The tips can be ground if they're not worn too badly and the sockets can be repaired by installing a special insert that's available along with the tooling needed from Silver Seal (800-521-2936) or Goodson (800-533-8010). Or, if you prefer to have someone do them for you, rebuilt rockers are available from Delta Camshaft at 253-383-4152.
You may want to consider flame-hardening the tips, too. Ed Davis at Waterhouse Motors in Tacoma, WA, has been doing this for awhile to eliminate wear on the tips. He found that the wear on the tips was loading the valves so hard to one side that they were wearing out the guides and causing other problems in the process.
Plan on buying a lot of new pushrods, too. Most of them are scuffed and worn on the tip due to the lack of oil in the socket.
That's the story on the 4.0L. It's pretty straightforward if you keep the castings straight and pay attention to the details. This has been a common engine in some of Ford's most popular vehicles including the Ranger, Explorer and Aerostar, so there are over 3 million of them on the road and plenty of business waiting for the shops who know how to rebuild them and make them live.