There's a local parts store called Hubs near me. They had a pre-packaged set of two grommets. Each different sized. The package said "Spectre Valve Cover Grommet Set" One for the breather and one for the PCV. I didn't need them both but it was worth it to find the PCV Valve one that worked. It fit PERFECTLY!!! Very snug. I'm Psyched and Stoked.
the part number on the package is P/N 5339 for anyone else who has the same setup.
bill