As general commentary on this topic, let me just say a couple things that address some of the fallacies in audio.
First, using nominal handling wattage of a speaker to describe a system is wrong. Speakers do not create wattage. The proper way to describe power output of a system or part of a system is the RMS number of the amp(s) driven into a static 4-ohm load at a low distortion level (THD). "Peak" power or Japan industry figures are misleading and are solely quoted to get consumers hyped (sounds like horsepower, yes?).
Notice I used the word "static" above. This is important for the next point. Another marketing gimmick is quoting figures at 2 ohm loads. This typically doubles the rating, making the amp appear more powerful than it is. Problem is, running a 2 ohm rated load means that the amp is going to see momentary impedance levels below 1 ohm. This is because music is not static; it's dynamic. Deep bass reproduced by big drivers is going to cause momentary low impedance. This reduces the effectiveness of the amp to control the drivers and deliver *accurate* tones.
Many amps claim to be 1 ohm stable. This is not to be confused with being *accurate* with a 1 ohm load; it just means there is some kind of circuit protection on board.
The higher the impedance, the more control an amp has over the fore and aft movement of the drivers. Picture pedaling downhill on your bicycle. If you are in high gear, you can still move your legs against the resistance and maintain stability. In low gear, you are windmilling your legs like mad but can't keep up with the speed.
To an ear striving for accuracy, the "sacrifice" in power output going from a 2 ohm to 4 ohm rated load is worth it. Not only will distortion come in at a much higher volume level, but the amp(s) will run cooler and last longer. Note that most home speakers are 8 ohm, even though the power source is more stable than a car's.
Lots of guys will wire four 4-ohm speakers into a stereo (2 channel) amp, hooking them up in parallel. This gives a nominal 2-ohm load. I had several such people come into the shop complaining of "blown" speakers and distortion at moderate levels. The fix? Remove the wires at the amp and hook them up in series to achieve an 8-ohm load. Distortion gone. Not a one of them moaned about "cutting down the power", because the end result was plenty of volume and clean music. And I didn't rip them off by replacing good parts.
Going back to subs, let me yak about driver size. Big drivers have been hyped over the years as necessary to achieve "big" bass. This is a marketing ploy (and a damn successful one) that skirts the physics of acoustic reproduction. In home systems, large drivers are employed for their ability to create low frequency sound waves in large areas. In cars, these low frequency waves have a length that exceeds the length of the vehicle's interior. This is why you hear "better" bass outside the car; inside what you are experiencing is air movement and some representation of the upper harmonics of the sub bass tones.
Every driver had cone mass. The bigger the driver, the more power it needs to move that cone back and forth to reproduce the sound waves. The smaller drivers are more efficient in that they have less mass to move. But, they don't move as much air and are not as forceful down low as the big drivers.
What to do? Simple. Run multiple small drivers. Now you have more total cone mass with the added bonus of more voice coils moving it faster. Phased adjoining drivers will create waves that "melt together". Such an array will go low and do it cleaner than big drivers, which often give that muddy one-note boom (worsened by band-pass boxes) that so many of us hate.
The trend towards huge drivers leaves an inherent hole in the mid-bass. They cannot move fast enough to give crisp bass transients and percussion that inhabit that 100 to 300-cycle area. The "fix" here is to build a four-way system that uses smaller bass drivers for this area (note that 5 or 6-inch bass drivers are built differently than the same size midrange). This will help the overall problem, but you are still left with lazy sub bass.
In a standard passenger car interior, I have found that anything over an 8-inch driver slows down the sound. In a van or SUV, a 10 is acceptable. In a mini-truck, well...
One of my installers had a Toyota mini years ago. Following the "smaller is better" criteria, he built a box behind the seat that employed six 6 1/2" bass drivers per side, wired in series-parallel for a 3-ohm static load. The upper AND lower bass reproduction was incredible. And it sounded better "inside" the truck than outside, and used far less power doing so. And the box was thinner than "normal".
A further illustration of this is the home subwoofer array that Yamaha used to sell a few years back. It hung on the wall, about 3 foot square, and maybe 2 or 3 inches deep. There was one small port on top. During a new product demonstration put on by Yamaha, we (dealers) were treated to amazing sound with all kinds of different source material. The streamers attached to the port for show were almost vertical the whole time. The accuracy was awesome, and filled the entire meeting room. With a flourish, the rep pulled the speaker grille off to reveal, you guessed it, sixteen 4-inch drivers. Unreal.
Some of my best sounding stuff used four 8-inchers in boxes that were half the size of two 12's. In most instances, a single "quality" driver is all that's needed. Money is better spent on a "quality" amp. Unfortunately, too many people go for multiple cheap drivers and some bargain amp with a big bogus rating. Then they brag about blowing up the speakers with too much power, when in reality the amp clipped when overtaxed and cooked the voice coil(s).
And speaking of clipping, adding truly powerful amps to a car necessitates attention to the charging system. Big capacitors helps rapid transients down low, but they do not "create" power. An upgraded alternator should be considered, but also pay attention to the charge wire coming out of it. That will often be too small and can cook from excessive draw. Amps should wire straight to the battery with individual circuit breakers, and not to other power sources in the car.
The longer you listen to music at elevated sound levels, the more you tax the battery and charging system. That is, if you commute a distance, the voltage level in your battery may begin to drop if it cannot keep up with the "total" draw, including A/C and headlights and such. As voltage drops, the amp is more likely to clip (distort) and damage your speakers, usually the smaller ones first. See on your amp spec sheet that most are rated at 14.4 volts or thereabouts, which is what the alternator is putting out while driving. As this dips down, so does the ability of the amp to maintain spec. Big systems should have a volt meter that is wired at the amp(s) so you can see what it/they are getting fed.
Tuning the system for "flat" sound reproduction? I believe it's another gimmick. The fact is that humans all hear differently and have different preferences in *what* they hear. I have seen people pay for acoustic flattening and hate the results. If the system is properly designed to start with, then fiddling around with EQ settings in the deck should suffice.
There is much more to all this, of course. I stay out of the sound newsgroup because everyone is an expert even if they don't know WTH is going on. All my observations come from experience. I hope this gives a little insight to anyone building up a system.