What do you mean, "forced?" YOU are buying from THEM. You are by anyone's definition, the one in the driver's seat. Simply (and forcefully) tell any dealer you are not sitting through their tired sales pitches. You want the papers to sign, you're ready to pay the cash, and you haven't time for their nonsense. We sat through a short bit of nonsense (of a slightly different flavor) when we bought one of our Foresters, but once we saw what was coming off, we simply told them we were not interested in their "extra products" and did not have time to waste listening about them. If you mean it, they will get the message. If you do not mean it, and somehow feel you might lose the "opportunity" to buy from them by being insistent, well, they have you exactly where they want you. I don't mean this to sound smug in any way, so please don't take offense at it, but when you know the score, don't be afraid to say it plainly!