My old method was to hook up all the cables to terminals except the last lead and then quickly strike the last terminal. If that resulted in BIG sparks then polarity is wrong - redo cables. This is outright horrible to a modern car with all the computers - I KNOW but never remember when needed. From the following link I see that things are even more complicated. Are they overdoing this?
joe
Dead Car Starting Method # 2: Gentlemen, Start Your Engines! Start the good car's engine, and make sure the headlights are off, to allow the maximum amount of power to get to the dead battery. Let the good car's engine run a minute or so before attempting to start the dead car. Sometimes you get lucky and the dead battery will jump start right away, sometimes it takes a few minutes. If you're lucky and have a voltmeter built into your dash on the dead car, turn the key to the accessory setting and read the voltage coming into your charging system. Ideally you want between 12 and 13.6 volts, but some cars can start at 10 volts. If your dead car's interior dome light comes on, it's a great sign that you've connected the cables right. Now shut all doors and dome lights and try to start the car. If it sounds like it's trying to crank but won't turn over completely, give it a few more minutes and rev the engine moderately on the good car. You may also need to play with the cable grips to get a better connection, and use that in dash voltmeter to its fullest if you have one. You'll get a spark as you move the cables around a bit. Let's assume your engine started ok, but if it did not start, see the troubleshooting section further down this page