"Jeff" ...
This reminds me of a patient I had many years ago. I told him (as his doctor asked me to), that he was due for a physical. He goes, "I'll schedule a physical, if you'll let me come to your house to talk about insurance." I said, "I told you to get the physical because it's my job, that I'm doing at my workplace; this is not your office." Like I give a shit if he gets his physical or not! My husband and I *deliberately* went to his competitor, who never, ever mentioned insurance to us.
That behavior backfires very often, but some people just don't get it.