Take a tub of lard and put it in a cooking pot. Set your stove to the highest temp and let the lard "cook" for 20 minutes.
As the temp rises you will notice it goes from a solid to a liquid, in other words, as it gets hotter, it gets "thinner".
While your motor oil doesn't ever turn into a solid at room temp like lard does, it will get thinner as it heats up. You can also witness this by draining the oil out when it is hot VS when it is cold.
Maybe you should try some 20w50 oil and see if that doesn't help. I would suggest getting the oil pressure tested. Make some calls and see what shops charge for this test. Or, run down to Autozone and buy a gauge and test it yourself, it isn't that hard to do (we can walk you though it).
Later.