Are you folks applying Rain-X or Rain Dance to a just cleaned and perfectly dry windshield???
There is more than one type of Rain-X product. The one you put on the outside of the windows is not the same as the one you put inside to keep the fogging under control.
The inside version is a surface active material, which is designed to cause the fog droplets to merge and form a clear film of water. Similar to the materials you put inside your ski mask, etc. These are generally quaternary compounds, sort of similar to fabric softeners.
The one which is used on the outside is different and is designed to last longer when in contact with lots of water (rain). It also forms a film on the glass, letting the water sheet off. Some people love this one and others dont. I am of the latter leaning. To me, no matter how it is applied, it has irritating effects.
To each his own.