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i feel for ya.
i know what it is like to deal with people like that.
did he at least thank-you?
i will help people but if all they do is stand there while i do all the work
and not help me help them then i usually leave them there.
I hate it when people say "can you help me"
when they really mean "will you do all the work for me"