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I think we're talking at cross purposes. My point was that I switch the donor engine off before trying to start the flat car and that it's fine to run the donor engine to charge the dead battery.
I think there's a risk with both cars of a spike as long as they are running, so if the donor isn't running there's no danger to it of a spike as the spike comes from the alternator suddenly having less load. If it's not turning in the first place then no problem.
Thanks,
Peter.