Well, thanks for all the suggestions. Nothing worked trying to get the damper pulley bolt removed. I got a magnifying mirror and light, checked the 19mm pulley bolt real close. No wonder it won't break loose. It has been welded. HOW? WHY??? Makes no sense! Really stupid! @$I(#$&(*&#%%#!!!! You can see that there is NO crack where the bolt joins the pulley/damper...there is a smooth metal fillet all around the bolt! No mechanic would have done this, it would have to have been this way from the factory...so it seems. The fillet material seems to be hard steel. I heated the bolt head as hot as I could get it with MAPP gas, and it had no effect on the fillet material, so it is not some sort of low-temp solder.
So, I presume that the only thing left to do is to get a die grinder and grind the head completely off. Hopefully I can then get the pulley off with my harmonic balancer puller. The big problem then is how to get the bolt stud out? I have plenty of Kroil penetrant left over, would a pipe wrench work?
Can I use any suitable metric bolt, or will I have to get a specific replacement damper pulley bolt from somewhere?
Thanks, Geronimo