Don't forget that although the 3-terminal flashers all look very similar, they don't all work the same, see my discovery of the very different workings of the MGB unit. The P terminal can be wired in different ways for different car designs.
Personally I would be very suspicious of any unit that has different advice for positive or negative earth. These seem to be the ones with an X terminal instead of a B terminal.
I gave you a link to a supplier of the Morris Minor flasher unit that connects exactly the same way regardless of polarity. I would start with that unit. Then I would check that each lamp-holder's earth return has a very low resistance to a known good earth (your battery box?), and any that are too high will need a better earth.
Once you have got that far, the only other check is that with B connected temporarily to L, you put a volt meter across each bulb in turn and they should all show about 12V. Any that doesn't has a dodgy feed connection, because you will have already fixed the earth if needed. When you have got 12V across each bulb, then take each bulb out in turn and any that don't clearly have 21W marked on them should be replaced by new 21W bulbs. Any that are marked 21W but are visibly dimmer than the others are faulty bulbs.
At the moment, I think you are trying to be too clever with the maths and considering shunt resistance etc. The reality is that if you have the simplest flasher unit, good earths, full voltage on the feed wires and bulbs with the correct wattages, you don't need maths, it will just work. There is an old piece of advice: "keep it simple" and that is the mind set you need when you are working with unknowns. Assume that everything you currently have is not fit for purpose until you prove that it is.
I recognise that you don't start from a good place (Araldite is an insulator not a conductor!) and you certainly shouldn't fudge anything to get a desired result because what happens if a bulb blows later and the replacement isn't working as well because of the fudge?
Good luck. Jim