in article snipped-for-privacy@o11g2000yql.googlegroups.com, Jeff at snipped-for-privacy@gmail.com wrote on 3/22/09 9:48 AM:
the proof of the toddler tantrum in adults is before you and at hand.
just have to grasp it sorry to say.
the learning curve picks up after awhile.
no personal attack at all, however I can understand if feels that way to someone stuck in their toddler tantrum as a necessary result of child abuse.
the toddler tantrum is for combat and doesn't like to be found out; it takes a bit of time to shake it out.
the more love you pour into it ... the faster the blind rage, blind fear, blind stoopidity goes away ... it is why the defense structure makes dumb perpatrators and molestors and afflicts everyone with this condition.
the defense structure is all about raising healthy children and the worst you are for kids the dumber the defense structure makes you.
On the other hand, the better you are for kids, the more the defense structure will release talents, gifts, smarts, vision, good judgement, as the love sees .. has an open mind from the open heart ... so the defense sturcture makes you better at raising children.
that is a good first start if you want wrap your mind around it.
keep putting love inside where the hurt and pain is ...
it works if you work it.
all my best, always.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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