I'm sad to hear what happened.
Borman Ford in Las Cruces was founded by none other than Frank Borman of Apollo 8. Of the billions upon billions of human beings, there are only a few who have looked upon our planet as a whole. And Frank was on that first mission.
I'm convinced that this image of the Earth helped shift our perspective on how we view our own problems. Instead of seeing things just from one side, it helps to take a step back and look for the bigger picture. The hard-nosed view, in the absolute worst case of the Cold War, could have led us to blowing up our planet. A balanced view can lead us to seek non-destructive resolution to our problems.
I'd like to think that one phone call to Frank (or some other non-punative action) could have solved that problem of unauthorized credit checks.
The Mazda RX-8 happens to be built in Hiroshima. I expect that the designers of this wonderful car have well-rooted beliefs regarding conflict resolution.
Yes, lawyers are expensive. But I wasn't trying to say that any of them are bad. Let's say that I am set on healing an illness by using holistic methods. That doesn't necessarily stem from a view that "all doctors are bad". There was a time when "state of the art medicine" involved visiting the doctor for a good bloodletting. Health care has progressed. And there may come a time when we get so smart about taking care of our bodies that for the most part, doctors will become obsolete. This parallels the vision of a world where laws are replaced by standards, with punishment replaced by encouragement.
For thousands of years, legal systems have functioned primarily through manipulation of behavior by instituting punishments and rewards (penal codes and "tax breaks", for example).
I am glad to see organizations like the BBB that seem to be founded on a philosophy of encouragement.
It's a matter of Principle + interest. Ha.
~ ROCK8