The concern about over-stressing a V-twin during long hauls is common, but for this specific type of engine, the stress usally comes from erratic riding rather than steady cruising. You are right that the power feels different, and that difference is rooted in how the engine delivers its torque. You don't need to be looking for peak horsepower; you're riding a torque monster that's just designed to deliver that power smoothly through the low to mid-range. If you are constantly pushing the throttle to find more speed, you are putting unnecessary strain on the cooling and internal components. The technique here isn't about pushing the engine hard; it's about maintaining a steady cadence that lets the engine work efficiently. Think of it less like a race and more like keeping a powerful diesel running. Once you hit that comfortable zone—say, in the 2500 to 3500 rpm band—you want to ride in it as long as possable without over-revving. When you need to maintain speed for hundreds of miles, try planning your shifts to keep that torque curve utilized without letting the engine dwell at extremely high revolutions. If you feel the power thinning, it’s usually beacuse you've climbed too far past the peak torque band and the engine is asking for too much air and fuel to maintain speed. Downshifting slightly and letting the engine settle back into that strong midrange feeling is often the best way to smooth out the ride and conserve energy.
I’ve done some similar long hauls on these types of cruisers, and the biggest mistake riders make is treating them like a sport bike, trying to constantly find the upper limit. They are designed to be relaxed, powerful cruisers. Trust the low-end pull, stay in the comfortable power band, and the bike will handle the miles without feeling pushed to its limit.