Thanks to everyone who helped me out. I got everything done today, including a complete valve grind. I was able to polish the heads and the clean all the carbon and oil off the all the valves. Boy it feels good to have a v-6 again! Turned out I only needed 1 new exhaust valve, everything else was OK.
I got all the mating surfaces as clean as they could possibly be, and the only thing that gave me a problem was getting the intake on.
If anybody wants pics of the blown exhaust valve, lemme know.. I took pics of everything.
Thanks again to everyone who made this a success for me!
Carl