bad times for Jan and Kidd

Sorry to hear that brother Jan. Hope everything goes well in the end. Give Kidd a hug from me. I still remember your wedding day on IRC every once in a while. Maybe you're just going through a rough patch and things will get better soon.

Karls

Well getting treated as a human being AND getting paid properly sounds like some good things! Congrats there!

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Sorry to read this Jan.

I've not been here for a while, and this news saddens me

more so, because my wife and I split up last summer. She left ... moved out and everything.

I didn't give up, we both realised what we once had, and it was worth more , long term, than silly squables that had built up over time.

We got back together a few months later and we are strong now. we are different people ... better to each other... rather than self centered, but we still have to be mindfull of what happend, and think about each other all the time.

I dont know how you two are now ... a month has passed since the last post on the thread.

I am glad you are at least still friends. I hope, if it's the right thing, that you can work through it. I also understand, that it may not be the right thing ??? only you both can find that out.

I think of you Jan

and wish you the best

Richard (Tricky)

Thanks Richard.

Things haven't changed. We broke up and that's the end of it. The worst thing is what this will do to our little kids. Breaking up a family should never be an easy decision. I was against it with every cell in my body, but there's nothing I can do.

We are still good friends and able to talk about everything under the sun, but there's no going back.

Now we need to get a ton of things organized and find the best way to start our newly shaped lives together, since we WILL be a part of each others' lives anyways because of the kids.

The STRESS is unbearable.

Having no money adds to it.

So yea, life sucks worse than ever. But at least I have two wonderful kids to keep me sane.

tricky wrote:

I'm sorry to here it Jan. . . . . . . . So, what's she look like now days??

An opportunity wasted is an opportunity lost.

=-)

Well stuff happens. Life goes on in one form or another. Just need to get over this limbo phase and start over. Hate the part where everything is changing, and to have no control over anything. Life as I knew it is over, once again.

Oh she looks as good as ever.

I returned here to lurk a bit after a while. And what I find? Bad news.

For you Jan:

Pahoittelen tapahtunutta. Jaksamista teille molemmille. Pitäkää huolta lapsistanne kuitenkin, niinkuin varmasti aioittekin ja tulette pitämään.

Jep jep kaytannon asiat hoidetaan yhdessa sujuvasti ja ystavia ollaan yha. Valilla pinnaa kiristaa edelleen ulkopuoliset asiat kuten rahan puute jne... alamakeen luisutaan yha. Mutta muutto uusiin maisemiin edessa, ainakin hiukan helpottaa. Paljon enemman avoimia tyopaikkojakin siella. Alkuun asumme yha yhdessa lasten takia, mutta ero on tosiasia. katon oman kampan kun saan ensin toita jostain.

Translation: Whine whine whine whine moving further up north soon whine whine whine.