"I don't know about yours, but mine actually help with peripheral vision at night. "
This is a common misconception. You appear to have better lighting in that area, and you do. And so that area immediately within the wash of the lights is better visualized. But because of the way your eyes work, vision at the periphery and immediately outside that area is diminished. Your eyes and brain focus on that area of light, and tends to block out the rest. You'll see the deer better in that area, but much worse directly outside of it. It's just the way we work.
" Properly aimed, fog lights should not bother other drivers. "
Ideally, this is true. A good fog light should create an arc of light that is cut off sharply at the horizon, but spreads out pretty far ahead of the light. That's the ideal. And if that were true, your statement would also be true. Now, back to the real world. Most fog lights being run by these knuckleheads are far from "good"; especially those useless blue lights. They are the cheapest pieces of junk that Wally World or JC Whitless has for sale. Poor beam definition, lots of scatter and glare. Pretty worthless as a true fog lamp. Factory fog lamps are only slightly better. And when was the last time you checked the aim on your fog lights? I don't think the factory lights on my Dakota were even adjustable. And, finally, you're driving a medium to large sized truck. The fog lights are anywhere from 18-36" from the pavement surface, and 36-48" below your line of sight. Here's comes granny in here corolla. And you wonder why she wanders in to your lane.
"It helps other drivers to see me coming"
Do you really think so? If they can't see that big truck with two very bright lights on the front, do you really think two much smaller lights are going to make a difference? If they can't see you, it's because they are not looking. Not much you can do about that.
If it's not snowing, raining, or foggy, turn the darn things off. Real drivers are not impressed.