Again, thanks for the replies and advice from all.
An update but first I have to say I would guess only when my Wife got her hands on the A4 did it get "overly gentle" treatment and that was seldom as she like her SUV as she's a short lil' squirt and likes to sit up high to see the road.
Anyway, the A4 used a quart at 1800 miles. I added another 3/4 quart at about 3400 to bring it to full not waitng for the light this time. During the break-in I varied the speed I drove it and didn't redline it but consistantly brought it up to 5k on the tach before shifting and also let lower gears slow it down as the dealer and tech had advised.
I did not do a home oil change and waited for the first dealer recommended one at 5000.
It has 7300 now and I did drive it more agressively after the oil change by the dealer and they told me when it hit 8K it would also perform better. We will see about that claim.
The good part is that the oil consumption has vastly improved and has used about 1/2 quart since dealer service 2400 miles ago. I am going to look tomorrow after sitting overnight and I will post that here as I have not checked for a week and drove it pretty hard last weekend.
Here is hoping it is in same place on the stick (or very close) as a week ago.
Thanks again,
RP
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