New to the sight ... and wish I had seen it sooner.
Just replaced the trans on my 03 pilot ... @ 125,000 miles. It was shifting sporatically from 2nd to 3rd. I had the recall inspection done at 45,000 but to no long term avail. All of the miles are highway ... pretty easy miles.
Also, spoke to another 03 owner that had to replace his trans @ about the same miles ...
Honda customer service just didn't seem to think this was there problem because of the miles ... they have engineering problems (now they are mine)