Proper way to remove MES connector?

We're trying to solve our 97 Accord SRS light problem. This group supplied the steps to follow and we've located the MES connector . Since the
connector is in such and awkward spot, we're having a tough time removing it from the socket without fear of damaging the connector. What is the correct way to remove that particular connector?
Thanks, Barry
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