CRWLR,
You sound a little whipped. Realistic too, I'll grant that. How do you settle who gets what cars in your marriage? That's the real issue - not mpg or safety issues.
In my marriage to The Beast we're too indebt to do anything but alternate. Come aug. her vehicle's paid off and it's my turn. I know she sees me drooling over H-D's and is just waiting for me to drop the ball and start begging. Fuggaboutit !
Soon or later she'll start asking me what my "next car" is going to be. The Kids have already asked. I won't go behind her back, I don't need too. If she thinks we need a new washer first, that's fine. Sooner or later she'll get curious. When she hears H-D ( "I knew it !" ) and tries to nix over some B.S. reason, No problem. Sample dialogue begins:
Yeah, I'm getting a Harley when it's affordable. Big one too. You'll hear me coming a block away. The Kids'll freak !
No. I'm not trading in this time. I'll keep the jeep for 80% commuting and ride when only when it suits me. My target is minimum 18 years on the Jeep and the Harley for life. Both have easy access to aftermarket parts and self-maintainence. I love my Jeep and I'm happy with it. Any extra play money can go to one ride or the other.That's enough to satisfy me.
OK. But it's MY TURN. Before you buy, I gotta buy and that's how it's gonna be for me. The longer I wait, the longer you do too. Consider carefully, Dear.
The Preceding Fantasy Dialogue has been just one version of Spousal Management - Your millage and/or results may very.
Andrew