Well, looks like all the diagnosing was pointless as the alternator just packed in completely; sat idling for fifteen minutes with lights and radio only on for half of it with no probs - until I needed to get into the boot (need key). Wouldn't re-start - click-click-click noise..not enough in the battery to turn it over. Managed to bump-start it and get home with the headlights dimming all the way. Now have THREE batteries that won't start a car! But at least this one's still got 9.5 volts in it.
Ahh well, new alternator by the weekend and that BETTER fix it.
Thanks for all the advice given on this though, this is some group :) Got myself a bit of an education in the last week or thereabouts :)
Chandy