Thanks to the two people that replied with really good suggestions.
I did some hunting around, checking wires, grounds, etc. Someone had suggested I pull all the fuses, one at a time and see if the problem goes away, I did that, no leads. Then I took my volt metre and check for coninuity from ground to all the fuses. Only one showed a connection, obviously a short of some kind. Looked it up, it was the fuse for the exterior lighting, dash lights, and stereo. :) did some more snooping around and found that if I pulled the head light knob all the way out, and then back in ever so slowly, about 1/4 inch, everything works fine! :)
Took the light switch out and noticed that some of the tabs holding the wires into the connector are broken off (thanks previous owner) so the wires aren't seating properly. The switch is all rusty and the spring for the dimmer is broken. So, we're going to install a new headlight switch and a new connector (dealership purchase, no junk yard crap) and everything should work after that.
Thanks again to all who helped
Steve