Hmmm, yes a modern hatchback or average family saloon is much heavier than older ones but there have always been large, heavy, fast cars. My first cars were things like a Marina, Mk1 Astra GTE, Fiestas etc all about 900 to 100 kg. My current Focus is 1300 kg. However the question is really was disk life on things like Mk1 Ford Granadas (1300kg), early Jags (1400 to 1600kg) etc much better than similar weight cars nowadays or about the same.
I can't see vehicle weight or speed being the primary issue because the wear I see on modern cars isn't just worse in proportion to the extra weight and I'm sure my average speeds nowadays aren't more, in fact probably less with speed cameras all over the place, than they used to be.