The answer is they don't use them when making looms. Nor have I seen any of them recommend them for repairs. Looms don't usually need any repairs - and a maker would recommend replacement if accident damaged.
There is no right *one* - they all cover a range of cable sizes which is the main problem.
I'm not quite sure what you mean. A proper uninsulated terminal designed for flex is the correct way - and the same as the makers use. You can examine the quality of the crimp too - something impossible with the insulated type unless you remove the insulation. And if you do you'll see what a mess they are.
Oh they may well 'work' for a time. But nothing like as long as a properly made crimp will. And there's no need to try pulling a proper crimp apart - you can see if it's properly made.