I've had enough near misses in the past to be able to hold my hand up, and say I'm no better than the rest of you.
Main thing is, I overall learnt from it - my main weakness now, is if I'm out riding on the bike in a pack... you tend to get a bit carried away.
I've just gone over to something a tad more sporty too, but fortunately, it's proving to be a bit of a handful (I'm hoping a session tweaking the suspension will overcome a lot of what I'm finding with it) - net result is, I have untold amounts more respect for it, than my previous bikes - if anything, I'm slower overall on this, even though it's a lot more rapid than previous stuff that had no right to be punting along at the rate I used to manage. ;-)