|| big stilsons. 's the only way. try to wedge the stilsons (and make || sure it's on the right way round!) and lean on the nut. Failing || that, you have to cut it, which is a pain, or get a nut-splitter on || it if there's room. If all else fails, take it to someone with a || gas-axe (oxy-acetylene cutting torch) and get it burnt off. || || They normally come by holding the damper casing with stillsons and || undoing the nut though.
Raising the vehicle by the chassis rather than the suspension so that the spring is fully extended helps - you probably wouldn't get a decent-sized pair of Stilsons in if the spring was compressed. Someone large and immoveable (or a clever arrangement of straps and ties) to hold the Stilsons while you spanner away at the nut is almost essential IME.
Whatever you do, don't use a ratchet spanner to undo the nut. If you get it half off and then it won't turn any further, you are stuffed big time, as you can't wind the nut back the way it came, or get the spanner off the nut. Use an open-ended one.