In message , Mary Fisher writes
An odd question.
I'd have been given a bollocking, and the person who's property I had damaged would have been offered an apology and, if appropriate, recompense. Sorry if that's an old-fashioned notion, I realise that it is no longer considered necessary to take responsibility for the behaviour of one's children .
Last time it happened to me the woman in charge of the kids neither apologised nor pointed out to the kids that they should be more careful.