Several reasons and I give you the most meaningful one. Many of these electronic controls ... "trickle down" to other models IF... proven cost effective. High end buyers get to be the test customers for these gadgets ... good and bad. The bad stuff doesn't make it to "lesser" (which means "field tested") models. The issues in play in this and similar threads are the FlyByWire throttle and 5 spd automatic hiccups. Already, this crap FBW and 5spd automatic is in the Camry this year and it works about as buggy as in your Lexus. No surprise there. It is past time to make Toyota and Lexus feel the pain too by getting rid of these buggy cars with their dangerously ineffective solutions and make sure they understand that their precious REPUTATION for making a superior automobile is in jeopardy.
I like my 2003 Corolla and part of that satisfaction is in the ABSENCE of unproven sophistication. My introduction to Toyota was through a '90 Prizm (a Corolla as you all know)(purchased new) that was the most trouble free car I've owned in nearly 50 yrs of driving. AS for your crack about what I can afford, your Lexus is small potatoes. To me, a car is a tool for convenience and enjoyment, not a career or a shrine.
You need to hit hard and PUBLICLY the Lexus people.