An older gent from Morpeth who had bid on my Ebay auction, came and looked, and made me a fair offer to cancel the auction and sell (he did see the Autotrader advert). He got it for just less than I said I would leave the stereo in for, but I chucked in the Blaupunkt stereo.
I got me space back, and a reasonable price to a guy who will look after it (has been looking for about a year for the right price). he got the car he wanted, and didn't argue about the description or condition.
He accepted it was a fair price for the car.
Woohoo. I'm out of the shit with the missus, but Boohoo, I've last my Saab.