This is as far off-topic as it gets, however if just one single person listens/learns it could save grief..
The night to last Wednesday my mothers and grandparents hous burned down. My mother and her husband made it out with their dogs, only to see my grand parents not come out. 04:05 in the morning my mothers husband called in the fire...
It was bizzare to say the least, I live about 50k's away, and had not been sleeping well that night, as often happens. Was up around four- five 'ish went back to bed, listened to the radio, and there was a news flash about a big fire down town Oslo. Got up turned on the telly to watch the breakfast news at 06:30, saw the story on the big fire, seconds later they said a couple aged 88 had died in a fire up at Jessheim, two survivors out of the same house... My grand parents turned 88 last week, ....next news flash they said daughter and son in law got out safe... could not be wrong, eh?
No, it was not, house is mostly burned to the ground, I was up there at
11:00 in the morning to find a copper half asleep in his car, told him who I was, he said it was ok, but not to go inside...
Came back later with my mothers husband(still in shock, you should think he was on uppers, major adrenaline thingie, never seen anything alike it) only to learn that the bodys where still in there, where me and the dog had been "strolling" along earlier....
It turnes out it was very close for my mother and husband to "go" aswell, just offbeat chance that he heard the smoke detector next door go off, theirs where without batteries.....
I'm not the person to tell anyone what to do... But right now I'm two down and got two skarred/scared living in an non insulated cabin/hut, thank someone the weather is still "warm". And yes, they could get help as in accomodation, but my mother got four dogs she refuses to place in a cennel(?)..
Yes, I know, this is not my outmost brilliant piece of English written.... Hopefully you'll get the drift though...
Jørn.