CJ Lift suggestions?

I am About to lift the CJ.

Can't decide what I want and I hope you can help. I will run 35's and or 33's so I plain on a 4" lift (any comments?) I will use the Jeep on the street, mud small oto med size rocks, But I do tend to push it.

I dug through the old posts, and am interested in what you have to say about BDS and Emu. Don't think I want a SOA, mostly becouse everything is 20 yrs old and probably needs replacing anyway.

Any one have a lift they love or hate, and want to comment?

Soft ride is a priority, Not only do I not want to pee blood, but if the wife hates it, I wont get to play as much,

Any suggestions apresheated.

And Gears are taken care of. . .