Call yourself what you like kid.
OTOH if I called you a cripple you'd be entitled to smack me one. Like if you called Martyn fat.., well, now, actually....
I've spent my entire life surrounded by physically and mentally disabled people (and I know that is no longer the PC name for it) and I'd say I'm richer for it. However, it can be easier to see the disability than the person, so perhaps 'kay the cripple / physically messed up one' isn't a great tag.
When I first met you I vaguely remembered that there was a couple of guys on a.f.l. who had a 101 each and were going around the world. It was only a few minutes later that I remembered you were making the worlds first Motability 101, so I formed my first impressions of 'Kay', not 'Kay the cripple'.
I reckon you'll do just fine as "Kay", but the beauty of Usenet is that you can be whatever you want to be.
If I've put my foot in it with any of the above you can smack me one at the Robin Hood's Bay meet!
Tim Hobbs
'58 Series 2 '77 101FC Ambulance '95 Discovery V8i